Is Passion Out the Window Because You Resent Feeding Your Loved One?s Hearing Loss? 8 Steps: How to Go From Resentment to Rekindling Passion
Sedona, AZ (ContentDesk via ExitPath) June 9, 2005 -- Did you know that untreated hearing loss is a rising statistic in divorce? That there are more than 28,000,000 Americans with hearing loss, with only 20% seeking help? That 80% of those who are hard of hearing don't seek hearing aids or any other treatment? That issues surrounding hearing loss are a major contributor toward family friction and unhappiness?Studies show that hard-of-hearing people who were fitted with hearing aids experienced a 36 percent reduction in depression. Not to mention isolation and a suppressed libido. Coming to terms with your mission of no longer enabling your loved one by supporting his denial or feeding his hearing loss and instead helping him or her to get help will get back the good life you both once shared, according to Clinical Audiologist Richard Carmen, Au.D., Doctor of Audiology. Carmen's new book, "How Hearing Loss Impacts Relationships, Motivating Your Loved One," provides fascinating insights into the psychological mechanisms behind resistance. Clarified is the essential role family members play in co-dependence, and what they can do to shift their loved one from "struggling to hear" to "hearing independence ." It will inspire readers to make the necessary adjustments in their lives that can result in profound changes and a higher quality of life for everyone.Are you one of those who are compelled to fill in the conversation blanks, talk louder, or interpret what was said? Then you are an enabler; you are co-dependent.
Be aware that, so long as you continue on this path, you are pulling out the carpet of motivation from beneath your loved one, and incurring resentment within the both of you. Resentment cancels out passion. Here are eight steps to beginning a new life and rekindling the passion your relationship once had. 1.???Set new boundaries for yourself. Don't use your own fear of conflict with your loved one as an excuse to avoid making changes that will benefit you both.
2.???Be truthful with yourself and your loved one. Speak from your heart, not from anger, on how this hearing problem impacts you. 3.???Be Strong. Don't fall back into a cycle of "hearing for your loved one" just because he or she expects it, and you can't bear to see them struggle. 4.???Put yourself in their shoes.
The need to retain one's self-image or vanity is often times more important than a need to hear. Try understanding. Remove demands, threats and consequences. Instead, offer choices, options and helpful alternatives.5.???Stop being the messenger. Refuse to do the
"he said - she said" dance for your loved one.
He or she needs to be aware what they are missing or they will stay complacent, unmotivated to do anything. 6.???Stop raising your voice, then complaining you're hoarse. This results in a stressed throat, injured vocal chords, and your diminished well-being, all
leading straight to resentment. 7.???Eliminate your need to be right. Dig deep and find a sensitive, compassionate way to broach the topic of seeking treatment.
8.???Seek out support. Ask for testimonials from friends and colleagues whose relationships were rekindled when they sought a way to return to the hearing world. Dr. Richard Carmen's new book, "How Hearing Loss Impacts Relationships, Motivating Your Loved One," is available in softcover (107 pages) at most online and brick and mortar bookstores for $15.95.Other books on the subject by Auricle Ink Publishers: * "The Consumer Handbook on Hearing Loss and Hearing Aids," edited by Clinical Audiologist Richard Carmen, Au.D., Doctor of Audiology* "The Consumer Handbook on Dizziness & Vertigo, by Dennis Poe, MD, EditorSample chapters of all three books are available at www.hearingproblems.com PR InformationInterviews with Dr. Richard Carmen, Au.D., Doctor of Audiology and copies of "How Hearing Loss Impacts Relationships, Motivating Your Loved One," are available on request from:Raleigh Pinskey, Raleigh Communications800-249-7322, e-mail protected from spam bots.
300 People Will Form AIDS Ribbon Using Red Umbrellas on Field at Dodger Stadium to Promote AIDS Awareness at 'Strike Out AIDS'
(ContentDesk) August 10, 2005 -- The Wall-Las Memorias Project and the Los Angeles Dodgers will host one of the most unique AIDS awareness and fundraising events in the United States and in professional sports: Strike Out AIDS!???Prior to the start of the game, 300 supporters and friends of The Wall-Las Memorias Project, including parents, lifemates, children, siblings, friends of people lost to AIDS, will gather on the field to form an AIDS ribbon of red umbrellas to promote AIDS Awareness. Upwards of 1,500 supporters are expected to watch the game from a special section in the top tier of Dodger Stadium. Sales of select tickets will benefit The Wall-Las Memorias Project and its AIDS education programs.Honorary chairs of Strike Out AIDS include actress Lupe Ontiveros of "Desperate Housewives, Olympic boxing champ Paul Gonzalez, KFWB Dodger announcer A. Martinez and singer/actress Apollonia.Supporters who want to sit in the upper tier of the stadium and support Strike Out AIDS can purchase...
300 People Will Form AIDS Ribbon Using Red Umbrellas on Field at Dodger Stadium to Promote AIDS Awareness at 'Strike Out AIDS'
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The Advantages of Programmable Hearing Aids
People need hearing aids for a variety of reasons. Perhaps your hearing is degenerating due to normal aging, or perhaps you have undergone a serious illness that resulted in moderate hearing loss. Whatever the reason, if you have mild to moderate hearing impairment, it is likely that a hearing aid can help to better your quality of life.
Conventional hearing aids are the analog variety and are non-programmable. This means that they have one setting that cannot be changed or altered.
With these models, you may experience sensitivity to background noise without the option to filter. Though many believe that these models are better than no hearing aid at all, with today's advanced technology, other options are available.
Programmable, or digital hearing aids are designed and programmed specifically for each individual. After you have had a hearing examination, your audiologist will determine the level of your hearing loss and what product best suits...
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SongbirdStore.com Advances Hearing Aid Technology
Cranbury, NJ (ContentDesk) February 11, 2004--Hearing loss affects 28 million Americans.
An estimated 80% of those people with hearing loss forego using a hearing aid. The new Songbird? 400 Hour Digital Hearing Aid brings treatment within reach for them. This new, digital hearing aid conquers the issues commonly cited as obstacles to hearing aid use. The Songbird 400 Hour Digital Hearing Aid is: Disposable: After 400 hours or 90 days of normal use, the device is simply replaced with a new one.
Digital: The Songbird 400 has a digital chip, which provides the required sound enhancement for people with mild to moderate hearing loss. Automatic: An automatic volume control adjusts to the sound level in any environment, providing exceptional digital sound quality on par with the most expensive hearing aids.Over-the-Counter: Designed for persons with mild to moderate hearing loss, no hearing exams or tests are required, saving time, money, and uneasiness.
Maintenance-Free:...
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